4 Aspects in Headstone Selection

headstone with a pink flowers on the sideHeadstones come in different sizes, shapes, materials, and finishes. According to McDougal Funeral Home, headstones are a long-standing and permanent tribute to a life that has been lived, and choosing one for a departed loved one is a personal, meaningful process. These four factors typically come into play during the selection:


There are three main types of headstones: include upright, flat, and kerbed. If you want to go traditional, you should choose an upright headstone. It is fixed on the ground and supported by a concrete base and stands at about 45 inches tall. Flat headstones, as the name implies, are laid flat on the ground. In some instances, they may also be laid at a slight angle. The third type, kerbed, lies flat on the ground with a full-length design. Kerbed headstones are also often used together with upright headstones.


Some of the most popular headstone materials are marble, granite, bronze, and limestone. However, you should also carefully consider what type of material will be used on the headstone as some churchyards and cemeteries have certain restrictions regarding this.

For example, marble looks great but because it is not very strong and durable; some burial grounds do not permit the use of this material. You should also consider your budget when choosing a headstone material. Bronze is one of the most durable materials available but is also quite expensive. Granite, on the other hand, is a great option if you want a more flexible and adaptable material.

Experts say if you want something that will truly stand the test of time, go for quartzite. 


The finish of the headstone is also very important. For example, the smooth and shiny finish of polished headstones will need regular maintenance and may not fit in older graveyards, which is why most of them do not allow it. To ensure that the headstone will not look out of place in a traditional graveyard, you can choose a pitched finish for it. Other headstone finishes include part-polished and honed.


This is probably the most important and hardest aspect as this will contain an everlasting message to represent the life of the deceased. You can choose a quote, poetry, or religious text that held meaning to them. You can also use personal words or phrases that represent the deceased in a meaningful and personal way.

A headstone is one way to memorialize a loved one’s life for many years into the future. When it’s time to choose, you should be able to make an informed decision. Let this guide help you.